july 30, 2019. 0732 hrs
it was thursday morning.
we were going to have surgery to a pregnant mother of one daughter. yolk
sac tumor had been recognized spreading to liver and certain level of
abdomen. we predicted this gonna be a long day: cesarean section
continued with debulking and another debulking of a recurrent cancer of
uterus.
cesarean section went pretty smooth. we got the
baby out, he cried out loud. we stitched, bleeding from our knife were
controlled.
but it was pool of blood piled up. we sucked
the blood, for 3 second the operating field was clean, but the the blood
rose and stagnated. tumor implants were seen all the way from top to
bottom. i told myself, the baby wont see her mom. the abdomen then
packed with gauze, hoping the blood would clotted themselves. 7 hours of
surgery.
we were just pushing our luck to the edge. mother died 12 hours after surgery.
we had only around 30 minutes to drink, eat, and pray while the nurses get the next patient ready.
the
surgery that just about to performed was rather big and the operator
was rather: the master. he delivered the baby of president's grad son.
how cool.. but it wasnt that. for us, the surgery had to be conducted
well. at the exact time, it wasnt so sweet, a lot of sighing, swearing,
chuckles of disappointment.
every surgery has the
pearls. this one of my favorite moments. 6 hours of surgery, exactly in
front of me the most respected consultant, with me the trainees that has
been showing the beauty of meticulous movement, revealing other side of
obgyn i had never discovered. they can still be humorous and at moments
prior surgery, they are pious. they were emotionless on the table,
passionate and perfectionist.
my respect and appreciation to dr gatot purwoto, dr kade yudi, dr brian, dr anindhita, dr renardy reza, dr indiarto.
emotionless residents and trainees
11/7/19 07.25
i was having a discussion with my husband last night during our way to home after he picked me up at the hospital.
i frankly told him that is there anyway to be a person that is attractive enough to other people to be willing to open up to me, choosing me as a person that definitely would loved to hear their stories. do we have to have other criteria, other than being sincere?
hospital routines has been tiring, weary as other would have the same exact opinion. people are connected by rational reason, treating patients with knowledge and practice skill. people, some, have an easy going characteristic, fun to mingle with. while others, have firm wall beyond their personal. they know what is their priority, they know answers that has been expected, they dont pay anytime in other section outside rational thinking.
but yet, we are all human being. we definitely have that emotional thinking. i wish i could be one other friend that is able to sneak up in everybody's human being side.
if it is rational relationship, people tend to leveling themselves to their counter person. if it is emotional relationship, it is almost impossible to achieved such thing in setting of hospital and PPDS life.
isnt it fun to have sense of yourself having a part in other's daily life? and they are recognize your presence emotionally, as other human being and being open up.
i would love to sneak up to those emotionless residents and trainees, knowing their hidden side that contributes to their excellence and dedications.
i was having a discussion with my husband last night during our way to home after he picked me up at the hospital.
i frankly told him that is there anyway to be a person that is attractive enough to other people to be willing to open up to me, choosing me as a person that definitely would loved to hear their stories. do we have to have other criteria, other than being sincere?
hospital routines has been tiring, weary as other would have the same exact opinion. people are connected by rational reason, treating patients with knowledge and practice skill. people, some, have an easy going characteristic, fun to mingle with. while others, have firm wall beyond their personal. they know what is their priority, they know answers that has been expected, they dont pay anytime in other section outside rational thinking.
but yet, we are all human being. we definitely have that emotional thinking. i wish i could be one other friend that is able to sneak up in everybody's human being side.
if it is rational relationship, people tend to leveling themselves to their counter person. if it is emotional relationship, it is almost impossible to achieved such thing in setting of hospital and PPDS life.
isnt it fun to have sense of yourself having a part in other's daily life? and they are recognize your presence emotionally, as other human being and being open up.
i would love to sneak up to those emotionless residents and trainees, knowing their hidden side that contributes to their excellence and dedications.
mindless fatherless creature
may 20th 1445
who made your day? your chief. who ruined your day? your chief.
he is the worst kind of human being i have ever deal with. bunga bangkai. yes, probably that is what represent his whole characteristics. the largest individual parasitic creature. spreads odor and negativity
it is his way to educate, positively thinking, that men under rough circumstance will show the greatest power and effort to survive. he put his every single might he has as a chief to drain all energy left of his workers to its limit, to suffocate in turns of goal achieved.
it is not wisdom, nor fairness. simply his joy to absorbs eagerness trades it with cruelty and injustice. injustice might have slight different meaning. i would call it dzalim.
he pushed me to the edge of ikhlas. if it is not wrong for me to not forgive, then i will not forgive. if it is not wrong for me to swear, then i will swear that i will watch him from distance every single fairness, or if may i would call azab, Allah would bring to test him.
dear Allah, saya tidak sudi dan saya sangat sakit hati atas perbuatan dan kepemimpinannya. i let you to finish whatever you might plan in order to show him that whatever he has been done to me, to us is unfair and he is wrong. please let him know that he is wrong. perhaps Allah will show him the way.
i will not forget. mungkin one day i will forgive. but i will not forget.
Ya Allah, jangan jadikan anak cucu keturunanku suatu sifat dzalim.
mungkin dia lupa suatu saat dia akan mati.
who made your day? your chief. who ruined your day? your chief.
he is the worst kind of human being i have ever deal with. bunga bangkai. yes, probably that is what represent his whole characteristics. the largest individual parasitic creature. spreads odor and negativity
it is his way to educate, positively thinking, that men under rough circumstance will show the greatest power and effort to survive. he put his every single might he has as a chief to drain all energy left of his workers to its limit, to suffocate in turns of goal achieved.
it is not wisdom, nor fairness. simply his joy to absorbs eagerness trades it with cruelty and injustice. injustice might have slight different meaning. i would call it dzalim.
he pushed me to the edge of ikhlas. if it is not wrong for me to not forgive, then i will not forgive. if it is not wrong for me to swear, then i will swear that i will watch him from distance every single fairness, or if may i would call azab, Allah would bring to test him.
dear Allah, saya tidak sudi dan saya sangat sakit hati atas perbuatan dan kepemimpinannya. i let you to finish whatever you might plan in order to show him that whatever he has been done to me, to us is unfair and he is wrong. please let him know that he is wrong. perhaps Allah will show him the way.
i will not forget. mungkin one day i will forgive. but i will not forget.
Ya Allah, jangan jadikan anak cucu keturunanku suatu sifat dzalim.
mungkin dia lupa suatu saat dia akan mati.
sudah jadi MANDOR, bentar lagi PELAPOR
April 10th, 2019.
1030 hrs
mandor : orang yang paling berkuasa di IGD, di VK, di OK.
dan inilah mandor2 tersayang semester ini
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| T2A, 5 semester lagi |
after all the burdens, hardships, struggles, devastation
emphasizing to self and others the point of not giving up
try to push other's back so we can still living with only "these" that we have.
i only have these guys
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| my favorites |
when to afraid to ask, when to afraid to yell, this is the only place to hang on
one's husband one's wife may not be fully understand,
one's boy/girlfriend may not throughly experience and we have experienced
kakak kelas wont give a damn
ade kelas are too young to realize
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| next year : BALI ! aamiin |
"There's only us, there's only this
Forget regret, or life is your's to miss
No other path, no other way
No day but today"
Forget regret, or life is your's to miss
No other path, no other way
No day but today"
satu rasa
oct 2, 2018 2020 hrs
apa sih yang buat sekolah ini begitu berat?
kalo gw sih, karena ga ada tempat cerita karena ga ada satupun yang serasa.
we have different roles. yang satu mungkin seorang ibu, yang lain masih perawan/perjaka/ga jelas apa orientasi seksualnya, atau ga jelas kapan nikahnya. yang satu pengen bisa membabat semua pasien SC, yang lain ngerasa ibu2 kesakitan itu tak pantas disakiti. yang satu dpt self esteem dengan menjadi pintar, yang satu cuma pengen lulus, yang lainnya masih denial knp terjerumus ke obgin.
mungkin di luar sana banyak yang punya cerita sama, masalahnya ga pernah jodoh untuk ketemu dan bicara. mungkin di dekat-dekat kita banyak yang mau mendengar, tapi kitanya yang takut cerita, kitanya yang ga ada waktu untuk cerita, berpikir orang lain juga punya masalahnya sendiri.
padahal mungkin, life would be so much easier if we share.
ga akan menjanjikan bahwa kehidupan ini seketika indah sih.. tapi, paling ga jadi tau bahwa ada yang mau dengar, ada yang berkenan menyediakan waktu, tahu bahwa diantara orang2 sibuk yang selalu dalam deadline dan ketakutan, ada yang peduli ternyata.
kita semua hanyut dengan cerita dan masalah masing-masing. lupa bahagia, kalo kata mas marco.
and when somebody is quit, kita berlomba-lomba supporting not to quit, when they are already decided to quit.
ibu ini tangguh, punya banyak cerita di balik keadaan dirinya yang sekarang. i cannot claimed i knew her well, but i have know her enough to wish her well and believe that Allah loves her so much. God indeed gives her all the prayer, i have sent to Allah. my prayer find reasons to quit school.
she quit, but i believe it is so much BETTER for her. if i was closer to her, i would certainly support whatever decision she has made. hamil. above all reason to stay in ppds, this is the best fortune Allah can give to His human. she gets pregnant and quit. kurang indah apalagi. (well, pernah gw berdoa mati syahid ajalah kalo ppds begini bgt jalan cerita hidupnya -_-")
dia keterima ppds. dia hamil. di keluar. SEMUA jenis acknowledgement she have achieved. all the dream i have wanted is in her story.
siapa sih ppds yang ga mau keluar? siapa ppds yang berharap Tuhan memilihkan jalan buat dia, so they could be happier? siapa yang ga muak menjalani hari-hari seperti layaknya hari-hari ppds.. ogbin lagi.. terus siapa aja yang Allah selamatkan dari ini semua? Dia. Sehingga dia bisa berperan layaknya ibu, layaknya istri, layaknya teman, layaknya manusia normal..
i wished her well, apapun pilihannya. if she returns, she would be missed very much, if she decide to quit, she would done other roles better than when she is in the school,
paling tidak, kita pernah satu rasa.
apa sih yang buat sekolah ini begitu berat?
kalo gw sih, karena ga ada tempat cerita karena ga ada satupun yang serasa.
we have different roles. yang satu mungkin seorang ibu, yang lain masih perawan/perjaka/ga jelas apa orientasi seksualnya, atau ga jelas kapan nikahnya. yang satu pengen bisa membabat semua pasien SC, yang lain ngerasa ibu2 kesakitan itu tak pantas disakiti. yang satu dpt self esteem dengan menjadi pintar, yang satu cuma pengen lulus, yang lainnya masih denial knp terjerumus ke obgin.
mungkin di luar sana banyak yang punya cerita sama, masalahnya ga pernah jodoh untuk ketemu dan bicara. mungkin di dekat-dekat kita banyak yang mau mendengar, tapi kitanya yang takut cerita, kitanya yang ga ada waktu untuk cerita, berpikir orang lain juga punya masalahnya sendiri.
padahal mungkin, life would be so much easier if we share.
ga akan menjanjikan bahwa kehidupan ini seketika indah sih.. tapi, paling ga jadi tau bahwa ada yang mau dengar, ada yang berkenan menyediakan waktu, tahu bahwa diantara orang2 sibuk yang selalu dalam deadline dan ketakutan, ada yang peduli ternyata.
kita semua hanyut dengan cerita dan masalah masing-masing. lupa bahagia, kalo kata mas marco.
and when somebody is quit, kita berlomba-lomba supporting not to quit, when they are already decided to quit.
ibu ini tangguh, punya banyak cerita di balik keadaan dirinya yang sekarang. i cannot claimed i knew her well, but i have know her enough to wish her well and believe that Allah loves her so much. God indeed gives her all the prayer, i have sent to Allah. my prayer find reasons to quit school.
she quit, but i believe it is so much BETTER for her. if i was closer to her, i would certainly support whatever decision she has made. hamil. above all reason to stay in ppds, this is the best fortune Allah can give to His human. she gets pregnant and quit. kurang indah apalagi. (well, pernah gw berdoa mati syahid ajalah kalo ppds begini bgt jalan cerita hidupnya -_-")
dia keterima ppds. dia hamil. di keluar. SEMUA jenis acknowledgement she have achieved. all the dream i have wanted is in her story.
siapa sih ppds yang ga mau keluar? siapa ppds yang berharap Tuhan memilihkan jalan buat dia, so they could be happier? siapa yang ga muak menjalani hari-hari seperti layaknya hari-hari ppds.. ogbin lagi.. terus siapa aja yang Allah selamatkan dari ini semua? Dia. Sehingga dia bisa berperan layaknya ibu, layaknya istri, layaknya teman, layaknya manusia normal..
i wished her well, apapun pilihannya. if she returns, she would be missed very much, if she decide to quit, she would done other roles better than when she is in the school,
paling tidak, kita pernah satu rasa.
sweet escape
crosspath
5/9/18 0909 hrs
setelah kehidupan PPDS sebegitu kelamnya, SEBEGITU kelamnya, finally i crosspathed with few pearls under heavy mud.
1. asisten perina saya (which remained unnamed)
he reads books. good sophisticated books actually.
easy going. with certain mental illness. LOL. exactly similar to me.
he certainly would be a good friend
2. as usual, kakak chief.
who made my day? kakak chief. this kakak chief is the best support system. he got his back on us, all the time. ALL the time.
i write, i wont forget.
setelah kehidupan PPDS sebegitu kelamnya, SEBEGITU kelamnya, finally i crosspathed with few pearls under heavy mud.
1. asisten perina saya (which remained unnamed)
he reads books. good sophisticated books actually.
easy going. with certain mental illness. LOL. exactly similar to me.
he certainly would be a good friend
2. as usual, kakak chief.
who made my day? kakak chief. this kakak chief is the best support system. he got his back on us, all the time. ALL the time.
i write, i wont forget.
Dirty Tricks and Black Magic
July 22nd 2018 1903 hrs
just finished my 24 hrs shift, which almost certainly prolonged to 30 hrs ++ as always. i dont know how many new patients, but last night was definitely pain. excruciating pain.
we are legal criminals if i may say. yes, i did not even try to defend myself.
i have no idea why am i ended up in such negative surrounding. from tons of choices in my hand, i decided, sadly fully conscious about what i took, to dip myself in this institution, this hospital. i couldve happier outside, i wouldve do things i love, something i can embrace positively. rather than tightening my chest in this tricky sinful area i should have never commited.
there are good people in there, yes indeed, but they are just playing the same tricks, the same rituals, believing God would have been nicer because the condition forces us to do so.
to me, i always have alternative to choose better circumstances, that may be better for my health, better to my relationships and networking, instead of killing my character piece by piece one at a time for over 4 years, and god forbid probably years after school.
and as i posted the last time, who made your day? your chief. who ruined your day? your chief. dear god, please help me so my sons and daughters far alike from people like those who only knows their own perception, have no consideration of others. jadikanlah anak-anak saya pemimpin yang bijaksana.
what ashamed that this well-rooted education in well known institution ended up producing rotten doctors with no hearts. i dont wanna ended up trying to change the world to be a better place, i just want to have peace.
dear bad guys, Allah tidak buta.. so may you rest in peace.
just finished my 24 hrs shift, which almost certainly prolonged to 30 hrs ++ as always. i dont know how many new patients, but last night was definitely pain. excruciating pain.
we are legal criminals if i may say. yes, i did not even try to defend myself.
i have no idea why am i ended up in such negative surrounding. from tons of choices in my hand, i decided, sadly fully conscious about what i took, to dip myself in this institution, this hospital. i couldve happier outside, i wouldve do things i love, something i can embrace positively. rather than tightening my chest in this tricky sinful area i should have never commited.
there are good people in there, yes indeed, but they are just playing the same tricks, the same rituals, believing God would have been nicer because the condition forces us to do so.
to me, i always have alternative to choose better circumstances, that may be better for my health, better to my relationships and networking, instead of killing my character piece by piece one at a time for over 4 years, and god forbid probably years after school.
and as i posted the last time, who made your day? your chief. who ruined your day? your chief. dear god, please help me so my sons and daughters far alike from people like those who only knows their own perception, have no consideration of others. jadikanlah anak-anak saya pemimpin yang bijaksana.
what ashamed that this well-rooted education in well known institution ended up producing rotten doctors with no hearts. i dont wanna ended up trying to change the world to be a better place, i just want to have peace.
dear bad guys, Allah tidak buta.. so may you rest in peace.
Who made your day?
18.48. Jul 18th 18
your chief. period.
they have been there. in my position. sending patients yang lucunya, no one wanted to take care. serba ribet. but then i have my chiefs giving support emotionally and physically. i cannot complain no more..
as Lendl said
"you need to keep finding little sparkles to keep you going"
i like being in outpatient clinic.
i do talking to some who were well educated, some irritatedly and need extra patience.
i discuss my patients with my supervisor, which most of the time, i found myself extremely clueless. i have never read what theyve been saying. i did not make time.
one day i need a turning point. not now please. i wanna enjoy.
your chief. period.
they have been there. in my position. sending patients yang lucunya, no one wanted to take care. serba ribet. but then i have my chiefs giving support emotionally and physically. i cannot complain no more..
as Lendl said
"you need to keep finding little sparkles to keep you going"
i like being in outpatient clinic.
i do talking to some who were well educated, some irritatedly and need extra patience.
i discuss my patients with my supervisor, which most of the time, i found myself extremely clueless. i have never read what theyve been saying. i did not make time.
one day i need a turning point. not now please. i wanna enjoy.
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