emotionless residents and trainees

11/7/19 07.25

i was having a discussion with my husband last night during our way to home after he picked me up at the hospital.

i frankly told him that is there anyway to be a person that is attractive enough to other people to be willing to open up to me, choosing me as a person that definitely would loved to hear their stories. do we have to have other criteria, other than being sincere?

hospital routines has been tiring, weary as other would have the same exact opinion. people are connected by rational reason, treating patients with knowledge and practice skill. people, some, have an easy going characteristic, fun to mingle with. while others, have firm wall beyond their personal. they know what is their priority, they know answers that has been expected, they dont pay anytime in other section outside rational thinking.

but yet, we are all human being. we definitely have that emotional thinking. i wish i could be one other friend that is able to sneak up in everybody's human being side.

if it is rational relationship, people tend to leveling themselves to their counter person. if it is emotional relationship, it is almost impossible to achieved such thing in setting of hospital and PPDS life.

isnt it fun to have sense of yourself having a part in other's daily life? and they are recognize your presence emotionally, as other human being and being open up.

i would love to sneak up to those emotionless residents and trainees, knowing their hidden side that contributes to their excellence and dedications.